I don't understand

I don't understand why someone would want to, and or talk about endding their life just because another doesn't want to be with them.. How could that person become happy with someone else, if their not even happy within?

All night lastnight, my ex as sending me text messages about how she doesn't want to live anymore. And this is all because I wasn't happy with her and don't want to be with her again. How could she say, she loves me when she doesn't even love herself? Why would another want to put that on somene else? Deep down, I know she needs help. And deep down, I don't know how to handle shit like this very well.

I don't understand why I always seem to only find women who only want to hurt there self, or someone else. Who feel they can't live life, if their not with the person their soooo deep in love with. I don't go looking for these type of women. They always seem to find me.

I am so sick of the stress and pain I always seem to get from another woman. That I sometimes feel, I don't want this anymore.......